This is what i've learn today:

if u want somebody to see ur point of view, he or she gotta see the benefits of doing so'
it's like...it's natural for human to be self-centred..

For example:
when u look at a group photo, the first person u will look out for will most likely be yourself. So base on this theory, sometimes... u need to know dat u have to take a step back...in order to move forward. So, u can't just expect ur partner to do wad u want. U need to know wad he or she wants as well. Thus, compromising is important.

At times, when u're angry, try not to talk to yr partner cos when u are angry, u tend to say the wrong things. BUT u can't just let it go so it's good to discuss abt it after u feel better and less angry
cos if u just brush aside the issue, the same thing will repeat itself and these repetitions will turn the relationship sour..

Always say i love you to yr partner from time to time and of course it has to come from the heart.
Whenever yr partner says smth or is angry abt smth, then you have to assess. Think whether it's reasonable.. cos there must be a reason why yr partner complains.


Basically TRUST is like flying kites?

U cannot hold the string too tightly, or the kites wun fly. U can't let it fly too high... or it will break away. haha. It's a very simple logic yet very profound at the same time.


Most importantly, use ur heart to love... use the brain to assess! Cos sometimes, ppl use the heart to think and assess situations. I'm one of them. but sometimes when it comes, it really comes..


There are many good guys... Dun get urself stuck with a bad one, just becos u feel dat u love him..

I said: " but im not a nice girl also, so cannot say that he's not nice, u see? It's not easy to find a nice guy unless u're a really nice girl."

So there it goes: "hm.. maybe i shud put it this way, if he doesn't make u happy, dun hang on. . cos sometimes u have to do justice to urself. Not in that sense dat if he is going through down times....then u shud leave him.."

yar, thks for that (:

I think I should cheer up and think more of the postive. We are still young and full of energy yea?! We need to see the positive to do the positive. I have passion and dreams yet to be fulfilled but i know i will make it come true one day. Ren shen shi hen jing cai de!! cheers~


I miss her, the really happy me. Simple, happy and carefree (:

THE GREAT SINGAPORE SALE

Aloha! It's GSS fever people~ You get to see the Great Singapore Sale almost everywhere in town. For the past one week, i've been to the L'oreal Expo sale and town for some GOOD buys and i swear it's really GOOD and MUST buy!

Before that, on the last day of May which is also the last day of my exams, i attended Janice Birthday Party. Many people turn up and I must say i really enjoy as it has been really a long time since I attend a BBQ party. The food were awesome~ Below were the presents we (Shao Kai, Angeline & Me) bought for the birthday girl Janice, and pictures taken with my dearest Celeste and of cos the Birthday Girl Janice (:

Her favorite Pokemon & co. which amounts up to almost $200!!

That's Celeste & Me

That's Janice & Me

Alright, coming up will be showing u guys my good buys. . . . . I'd bought the Shu uemura blusher, Bio-essence 24k Bio-Gold eye essence, Kanebo Kate WP Mascara and Adidas pouch at much cheaper price!!

Shu uemura blusher - Original Price $40, GSS $22
(almost cheaper by 50%!)

Bio-essence 24K Bio-Gold eye essence -
Original Price $43.90, GSS - $30 (cheaper by 30%)

The above two products are from the L'oreal Expo Sale. Really many good buys over there. I even saw Shu uemura moisturizer original price at $118 and over there they are selling at only $18!! omg. Cheaper by $100. Isn't that a good buy? But sad to say that I do not use their skin care products so i didn't bring it back home with me ):

The Kanebo KATE waterproof mascara below is Good with Lengthening and Volume. I duno if there's discount during GSS but i think it's not expensive. It's price at $19 and I finally found it yesterday after a long searching. So. . . it's still consider a good buy to me heeh (: Anw, Adidas, Nike, Puma and many sports brand are having discount too.

Kanebo Kate WP Mascara - $19

Adidas Pouch with 10% discount - Good buy!

Hehehe! Mr Bf is busy working and i'm busy with my shopping. lol. By the way, i've completed my Diploma and currently having break c.u.m looking for a job. Any jobs available do intro me ya! Thks.

THE DOINGS OF "MAY"

Hello! it has been almost a month since i last did a posting. MAY, a busy and crucial month for me as i will be having my very LAST exam for my Diploma in SIM before i graduate. Time flies as everything seems as though it just happen yesterday but in 2 weeks time I'm graduating = . =! omg. how amazing!! It's has been 1 year 3 months. ha ha. I've been piled up by projects, projects and projects for the last few weeks and finally everything is over. Can't wait to sit for my exams in another 2 weeks time (:

Oreo Chocolate Pie

You ever seen this before? My classmate, Sherlyn gave this to me few weeks ago. She told me that she'd bought them from a Japanese shop which sell stuffs from Japan. It's a Oreo chocolate pie which i've never seen it anywhere before. The whole pie is about the size of my palm and it's covered with chocolate fudge. In between the pie, i think there's mush mallows or something soft and sweet. haha. Quite unique to me. Do give it a try if you happen to see this though it's a lil' expensive as one of this cost about $1++. It comes in a box of 4 or 5 (can't really remember) selling at $5+ or $6+ per box.

Mother's Day Present

ANW, Happy Mother's Day to ALL Mummys~ I bought this for my mum and i think she likes it. hehe. Had lunch and dinner with mummy on Mother's Day. Nothing much happen but it has been a long time since we'd lunch and dinner together, and even visited grandmother. So ya, I LIKE (:

The "QQrice"

Had this very special rice ball for lunch yesterday with Mr Bf at Novena Square (or Square 2?). It's quite a new stuff from Taiwan, i suppose? It's just like the Chinese/Oriental version of Subway. We can choose the type of rice (brown rice, purple rice, etc. .) and 5 types of fillings (fish, chicken, duck, eggs, tuna, peanuts, etc . . alot more). It's 3 rice balls for $10 and additional $1 for any drinks. Quite a good deal and most importantly, it's very healthy! The rice is made from dunno what kind of technology which will not make you feel bloated after eating. Furthermore, all ingredients are low fats and low calories.


At this point of time, 3 person flash through my mind. There are thoughts and feelings i wanted to tell them / share with them so much and yet i didn't make it to say to them face to face . . .

1) To my dearest Best^5 Friend, you seems to move on / getting better in your life. You seems like you've found your path / what u want in life. You seems like you're getting more sensible as i finally see the seriousness in you. BUT. . . you seems like. . . you are also drifting apart from me because of your busy schedule ): It seems like I REALLY WANT BACK MY OLD BEST^5 FRIEND!! haha. okie. enough of my nonsense.

2) To Jeff the LXY, I'm glad to know that you've care for yourself. At times, things are beyond our control and we can't simply change anything happening around/to us. All we can do is to make sure that we love ourself adequately so that we will not be much affected/hurt by what they've done to us. Thanks for the laughter you never fail to bring me every time we chat. Lastly, do remember that I'm always there (:


3) To " x.x.x " Though I hate the times when you're so irritating and despite many demoralizing things happened, thanks for your words of encouragement at that moment and standing "behind my back" supporting me. There are many times which i really wanted to give up, feeling exceptionally depressing, gloomy and joyless, yet you once again gave me the confidence to stand up strong and still.

[眼泪或许不是最好的解决方法，但却可以是最好的暂时解放]

David Tao's and MayDay's Concert

to be continued. . .

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CHARLENE IS BACK

Hello people, haven't been updating since my school starts. It's more of tired than busy this time as my classes are in the morning ): Though i dislike morning classes, but it's a form of training for me to wake up for work in the future. After all, it's not that bad either. I'd encountered some really unpleasant things which i dun wish to mention, and that leads to me having a new hair cut for a new beginning this semester. My fringe is rather SHORT which makes me upset for a lil' while. But i guess it's a bless in disguise as things are getting better for me. I know that as it goes, things will get better! Chang Huixian, Charlene! Don't be sad!! I know you can get this through!

p/s: I hope to be a self-motivated person.

Sadness and deadness filled up my room. An exceptionally saded day. I'm stucked here for many many hours. Just as dead as it may look.